Why do Marriages and Relationships Hit the Rocks?

Statistics show that about 41 percent of all first marriages end in divorce.
This is a depressing statistic to say the least… and yet, each year, this number rises ever so slightly.
So, the question now is – Why do marriages and relationships hit the rocks?
After all, both parties loved each other enough to tie the knot. Where did the love go? Why has the passion fizzled out?
The answer is – familiarity. Like the old saying goes, ‘Familiarity breeds contempt.’
The key to keeping the passion and love alive is to prevent familiarity and a lack of admiration for one’s partner from setting in. James Bauer, a relationship expert, wrote a book, “His Secret Obsession” just for women to understand the inner workings of their man’s mind.
It has been an online bestseller for years and is like the female version of ‘The Game’, that was written by Neil Strauss’.
If you’re starting to pick up signs that your marriage is going stale, this book has your name written all over it. It will guide you on how to rekindle the passion and love in your marriage. When your husband is obsessed over you, his eyes won’t wonder elsewhere.
There are several tips in the book that are ‘mind games’ but it’s all about understanding human nature. When you understand what your husband needs in a marriage and you give it to him, he will be very committed to you.
With all the raging feminists on the planet today, going out of your way to please your husband is deemed as weakness. Yet, most of these feminists are often single and besides moaning and protesting, they really have nothing else going for them.
The truth of the matter is that a wise woman knows exactly what to do to keep her husband in love with her. It’s not weakness, but brilliance.
Like the actor, Denzel Washington once said, ‘A wise woman knows the importance of speaking life into her man. If you love him; believe in him, encourage him and be his peace.’
James Bauer’s book will show you exactly what to do to save your marriage. Let’s look at why it’s so effective.
Things you’ll love about His Secret Obsession
1) It gives you a thorough understanding of how men think and why they act the way they do. This inner peek into the male psyche will blow your mind. The truth of the matter is that most women are clueless.
They try to save their marriage and act in a way that they think they’ll positively respond to. Despite all the talk about gender equality, the fact remains that men and women think differently.
His Secret Obsession will give you the facts from a man’s point of view. By doing what James suggests, your husband will be much more responsive rather than put off. His interest in you will increase and he’ll be more committed to you and remember why he married you.
2) Despite the fact that this guide was targeted at married women hoping to save their marriages, it can be very useful to single women too. Ever had an occasion where a man said he’ll call you back after a date… and you never hear from him again, and you don’t know why?
This book will tell you why. You’ll understand if you’re subconsciously giving off signals that repel men. You don’t know what you don’t know. His Secret Obsession will open your eyes.
It doesn’t matter how pretty or talented you are. Without the right social skills and understanding of how men think, your love life is going to be painful and difficult.
3) This is a risk-free purchase. You have 60 days to try out the techniques in the guide and see if they work for you. Most of the time, your marriage will get so much better that you’ll forget about the refund policy… but if you’re still not satisfied, you can always get your money back.
4) The writing is on the wall. His Secret Obsession has sold thousands of copies and has a long list of happy customers. It has been one of the top selling relationship guides online for a couple of years. If that’s not proof that this product works, nothing is.
5) The secret methods such as the ‘The X-ray Question’ and the ‘Glimpse Phrase’ are exceptionally brilliant. They’ll help you to put the spark back into your marriage and fan the glowing embers till they’re roaring flames. James’ methods work. Period.
We live in times where affairs and infidelity are very common. The ‘Silent Action’ technique in this book will keep your husband loyal to you and he’ll not be tempted to cheat. It may seem too good to be true… and yet it works. You just need to know what to do.
6) This book is inexpensive and will help any woman to salvage her marriage. Even if you have a strong marriage, the techniques in His Secret Obsession will help to flavor your marriage like a fine wine.

What you need to know about His Secret Obsession
1) Consistency matters. You need to apply every tip you’re taught. You can’t do it half-heartedly. Some women may feel shy or intimidated to carry out certain actions. But they’ll need to go ahead and give the techniques a try.
Getting out of your comfort zone may be necessary, but the fact of the matter is that your life will change if you change. Follow James’ advice to the letter and keep at it. You must be consistent and follow the instructions in this guide.
2) This is an online download. You’ll need a computer and an internet connection to access it. However, you can always print out the guide after downloading it.

Why you should buy His Secret Obsession today
A more pertinent question you should be asking is “How important is my marriage to me?”
If you’ve tried everything and nothing seems to work, His Secret Obsession just might help you. Let’s not forget, your husband did marry you. His feelings may be buried, but they’re still there.
James’ guide will give you the skills you need to bring the marriage back to life. It’s much easier when you know what you’re doing. What you need is knowledge and method – instead of blindly following your emotions.
This book will give you all the skills and techniques you require. So, use James’ techniques and save your marriage today.


It’s not too hard to find a ton of relationship advice online. The real problem is that there is just too much advice online.
Not only that, but it’s tough to know what advice is ‘good’ advice and what advice you may be better off ignoring. For that reason, I’ve put together this article where I will give you some solid, common sense advice. Enjoy.
Just in case you were wondering, I’m not a counselor or therapist. I’m just someone who has had some experience (not all of which has been good) and I’ve learned a lot of very valuable life lessons. Once you read over my list of tips, I think that you’ll see for yourself that none of it is rocket science, but it is good advice that can really benefit you.
OK, here we go:
1. Don’t settle. I’m pretty sure most everyone on the planet has settled at one time or another and stayed in a relationship with someone they knew they shouldn’t be in a relationship with. I’ve done it. It’s pretty apparent early on, in most cases, that your love isn’t all they are cracked up to be.
It usually starts small: a little lie, a nasty comment, etc. From there it almost always gets worse (why wouldn’t it, you have already proved to them that they can treat you that way and you will keep coming back for more).
Don’t be paranoid, but keep your eyes open for subtle clues. If they are going to show up they will probably show up early, long before you are too far in to leave. If you see some things, try to talk about it and work it out but if it doesn’t change, leave. You deserve better.
2. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated. If you don’t want to be lied to, put down or cheated on than don’t do that to your honey. Hold yourself and any one else that you are in a relationship with (this doesn’t have to only apply to romantic relationships either, the same holds true for friends and family) to a high standard. Give as good as you expect to get.
3. There is a fine line between being willing to work on problems and turning a blind eye to the faults of your partner. By all means be willing to work on issues, but you have to be realistic and not allow yourself to be manipulated. It’s very easy for your partner to tell you that they will ‘try to change’.
They may make some small attempts for a while but if you’re not careful you will both revert back to a negative pattern of behavior in a few days. You have to be on guard and make sure that doesn’t happen.
Finding relationship advice online isn’t hard to do. If you want to ‘fast track’ it, just keep these tips in mind for your current relationship or the next time you find yourself dating. You will save yourself a world of hurt if you do.


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